Everything you need for peaceful co-parenting — and everything you'd want if it stops being peaceful
CoParent.Help is eleven integrated modules built around a single principle: every interaction between you and your co-parent should be preserved with the kind of verifiable integrity that holds up under cross-examination — whether you ever end up in court or not.
Secure messaging. Shared calendar. Accountable payments. Recorded calls. Personal journal. Document vault. Shared goals. Info library. Smart notifications. Court-Ready Reports. And the hash-verified public ledger at coparent.help/verify that turns any export into evidence opposing counsel can independently authenticate.
Built around what reviewers actually evaluate
Judges, attorneys, and mediators look for the same five things when they review a co-parenting record. CoParent.Help is organized around all five — so the platform you use every day is the same platform that holds up when scrutiny arrives.
Communication
Every word said is preserved verbatim — with timestamps a third party can trust.
- Secure messaging
- AI tone suggestions
- Recorded calls
- Smart notifications
Coordination
Custody schedules, school events, medical visits — synced and accountable.
- Shared calendar
- Change requests + approvals
- Multi-child support
- Sync with Google + Outlook
Financial Accountability
Track shared expenses, split fairly, and prove what was paid — and what was not.
- Accountable Payments
- Receipt scanning
- Recurring expense tracking
- Shared financial goals
Legal Protection
Hash-verified evidence designed for the moment you need to show up in court.
- Court-Ready Reports
- SHA-256 hash on every export
- Public ledger at coparent.help/verify
- Litigation Hold tier
Privacy & Security
AES-256 at rest, TLS 1.3 in transit, continuous backups, audit logging, zero data sales — ever.
- TLS 1.3 in transit
- AES-256 at rest
- No third-party data sharing
- Audit log on every sensitive action
Six pillars, fully integrated
Every module talks to every other module. A disputed expense opens directly into a message thread. A schedule change creates a calendar event. A recorded call becomes part of the Court-Ready Report. The integration is what makes the record stand up.
Secure Messaging
A dedicated, time-stamped communication channel between co-parents. Replaces text messages, email threads, and DMs scattered across apps — with a single neutral record that cannot be silently edited or deleted by either side.
- Time-stamped to the second at the moment of send — verifiable in court
- AI tone suggestions before you hit send (escalation, sarcasm, blame language detection)
- Photo, document, and voice-note attachments — each carried inline as evidence
- Read receipts that document when a message was actually seen, not just delivered
- Search across years of message history by keyword, child, or topic
- Export the full thread (or a date range) as a court-ready PDF in one click
- Conflict-thread upsell prompts route long disputes into the formal evidence pipeline
- No deletion: messages cannot be edited or removed by either party after send
Shared Calendar
A single source of truth for custody schedule, school events, medical appointments, and activities. Every change is logged with who proposed it, who accepted, who rejected, and exactly when — turning schedule disputes into a verifiable record.
- Visual custody schedule with recurring patterns (2-2-3, 2-2-5-5, 50/50, etc.)
- Schedule-change requests with explicit accept / reject / propose-new-time states
- Every edit and every response is logged with an exact timestamp
- Sync with Google Calendar, Apple Calendar, and Outlook — read-only protection
- Automatic conflict detection (overlapping events, missed handoffs)
- Reminders for pickups, drop-offs, medical appointments, and school deadlines
- Multi-child support — see one child or every child overlaid
- Export the full schedule timeline as evidence of patterns (last-minute changes, missed pickups)
Expense Tracking & Accountable Payments
Track, split, and prove every shared child-related expense. Each transaction carries a receipt, a request status, and a verifiable payment timestamp — so unpaid balances stop being "he said, she said" and start being evidence.
- Submit a receipt with photo + description in under 30 seconds
- Automatic split by custody percentage, equal share, or custom ratio
- Request status tracked: submitted → reviewed → approved → paid → disputed
- Recurring expenses (daycare, insurance, medical) auto-create on schedule
- Payment history with timestamps for both the request and the payment itself
- Disputed expenses surface a Court-Ready Report upsell — turn the fight into a record
- Annual financial summary export for taxes and child-support recalculation hearings
- Shared financial goals (braces, summer camp, college fund) with contribution tracking
Court-Ready Records & Legal Protection
The centerpiece of the platform. Every entry across messaging, calendar, payments, journal, calls, and documents is time-stamped at creation and fingerprinted with a SHA-256 hash. Exports are signed, published to a public ledger, and built to survive the scrutiny of opposing counsel.
- Court-Ready PDF export covering all seven evidence categories in one document
- SHA-256 hash printed on the cover page of every export
- Public verification ledger at coparent.help/verify — opposing counsel checks it independently
- Designed to meet the foundation of FRE 803(6) — every U.S. state has an analogous business-records exception
- Court Evidence tier adds Records Custodian Declaration tools and professional-grade exports for disputes
- Litigation Hold Pro tier prevents any data lifecycle changes during active legal matter
- Records cannot be back-dated, edited, or selectively deleted — by anyone, including us
- AI-summarized timelines (Premium) highlight escalation patterns and missed obligations
- 90-day post-cancellation retention so you never lose evidence mid-case
Document Vault
Encrypted storage for the records that matter — custody agreements, medical histories, school transcripts, immunization cards, court orders, lawyer correspondence. Versioned, searchable, and shareable on your terms.
- Stored on encrypted infrastructure (encryption at rest provided by our hosting provider), TLS 1.3 in transit
- Version history on every document (who uploaded which version, when)
- Granular sharing — share one specific document, not your whole vault
- Search by document title, category, and tags
- Automatic categorization (medical, legal, school, financial, identification)
- Expiration alerts for documents with renewal dates (passports, insurance, court orders)
AI Writing Coach
Premium-only. Think before you send. Paste an emotionally-charged message and the coach scores it (intensity, conflict risk, professional tone, clarity), flags risk language, and rewrites it in five styles — professional, compassionate, firm-but-respectful, court-conscious, brief — without changing the facts you want to convey.
- Tone analysis with escalation-risk scoring
- Five alternative rewrites per message
- Court-conscious style option
- Never invents facts or gives legal advice
Recorded Calls & Accountable Calling
Phone calls between co-parents, conducted through CoParent.Help — recorded with notice to both participants and locked down with the same hash-verified integrity as your messages. Recording laws vary by state; ask your attorney about consent rules in your jurisdiction.
- Built-in dialer routes co-parent calls through the platform
- Call recording (Premium) with a recording notice shown to both participants
- Recordings are time-stamped, hash-fingerprinted, and referenced in evidence exports
- Accountable Calling minute budgets prevent runaway phone bills (120 min Standard / 600 min Premium)
- Call history exports as part of any Court-Ready Report
The differentiator that wins trust from attorneys, judges, and mediators
This is the section attorneys read first. If your records cannot be authenticated independently of the platform, they can be challenged. CoParent.Help is built so that every entry — from day one — meets the integrity bar courts already apply to business records.
Time-stamped at creation
Every entry — message, payment, calendar event, journal note, document upload, call recording — is time-stamped to the second at the moment it is recorded in our system. Not when you remembered to log it. Not when you took a screenshot. The timestamp marks the moment the entry is recorded, and the record is tamper-evident.
SHA-256 hash on every export
A SHA-256 hash is a cryptographic fingerprint of the exact contents of your report. Change one character and the fingerprint changes completely. We publish that fingerprint to a public ledger at coparent.help/verify the moment a report is generated — so opposing counsel can authenticate the document independently of us.
Designed for the FRE 803(6) foundation
Federal Rule of Evidence 803(6) — the business records exception to hearsay — has an analogous rule in every U.S. state, though wording and foundational requirements vary by jurisdiction. Records created in the regular course of using a platform, time-stamped at entry, with integrity checks are structured to meet that foundation. Admissibility is decided per case; show the export to your attorney early so they know what to ask for at the right moment.
What's actually inside a Court-Ready Report
Messages
Every message between you and your co-parent, in order, with send + read timestamps and attached media references.
Calendar events + changes
Every event created, every change requested, every accept/reject — with the timeline of who proposed what, when.
Expenses + payments
Submitted receipts, request status, approval timestamps, payment confirmations, disputes and resolutions.
Journal entries
Premium tier. Your private contemporaneous statements — included only by your explicit selection at export time.
Recorded calls
Premium tier. Recorded calls with sender, recipient, duration, and verifiable timestamps.
Documents
Vault uploads referenced in the timeline (court orders, custody agreements, medical records, school records).
Shared goals
Goal contributions with timestamps — showing who showed up financially toward braces, college, camp.
Court-Ready Reports are included on every paid plan: Standard ($14.99/mo or $9.99/mo annual) for unlimited exports with 1-year retention, or Premium ($24.99/mo or $19.99/mo annual) for unlimited retention, AI-summarized timelines, and recorded-call evidence. For disputes and active legal matters, Court Evidence ($79/mo) and Litigation Hold Pro ($149/mo) add Records Custodian Declaration tools, Legal Hold Mode, and enhanced evidence bundles.
Real moments. Real consequences. Real proof.
Most co-parenting platforms market peace and harmony. We do too — and we also build for the moments when peace and harmony are gone. Here are six specific situations where CoParent.Help changes the outcome.
The 11pm text that becomes evidence
Your co-parent sends an aggressive late-night message. Six months later your attorney needs to show a pattern of harassment. With CoParent.Help, the message is already time-stamped, hash-fingerprinted, and ready to export — not a screenshot you took the next morning that the other side can dismiss as cherry-picked.
The disputed daycare bill
You paid the daycare invoice in February. Now you're being told you didn't. The Accountable Payments log shows the receipt you submitted, the timestamp of the request, the approval, and the payment confirmation — all in one PDF an attorney can hand to a judge without further explanation.
The custody schedule that keeps shifting
Your custody plan says Wednesdays and alternating weekends. But over six months your co-parent has rescheduled or skipped 14 Wednesdays. The schedule timeline shows every change request, every accept, every reject, every no-show — verifiable proof of a pattern instead of a vague complaint.
The mediation session that goes faster
A mediator doesn't have time to read three years of texts. They have time for a hash-verified summary. Walking into mediation with a Court-Ready Report transforms the conversation from "let me tell you what happened" to "here is what happened, signed and verifiable."
The attorney who saves you 8 billable hours
Most family-law attorneys spend hours assembling evidence from disorganized texts, emails, and screenshots. With a CoParent.Help export, they spend that time on strategy instead. Some attorneys now require new clients to onboard onto the platform from day one.
The judge who wants documented patterns
Family-court judges are pattern-matchers. A single bad week happens to every family — what matters is what shows up over months. A hash-verified, time-stamped timeline of communication, payments, and schedule changes gives a judge exactly the substrate they need to make a fair ruling.
Four modules that compound your record over time
Personal Journal, Shared Goals, Info Library, and Smart Notifications — the modules that turn a co-parenting app into a system of record you can rely on for years.
Personal Journal
Journal entries that stay private to your account and are never visible to your co-parent, becoming admissible contemporaneous statements about what happened, what was said, and how it felt at the time. Premium only — courts treat contemporaneous entries with more weight than reconstructed testimony.
- Private to your account — never shared with your co-parent
- Time-stamped at write and hash-fingerprinted
- Tag entries by child, topic, or incident
- Export to your Court-Ready Report at your discretion
- Mood + context tags surface patterns over time
Shared Goals
Long-running shared objectives — saving for braces, college, summer camp, a child therapist. Track contributions from both parents, set target dates, and create a record of who actually showed up financially.
- Goal-by-goal contribution ledger
- Target amounts, deadlines, and progress visualization
- Linked to Accountable Payments for one-click contribution
- Goal history surfaces in Court-Ready Reports
- Helpful for child-support recalculation and tax-time recordkeeping
Info Library
A shared knowledge base for everything both parents need to know — doctor contacts, school passwords, medication schedules, dietary restrictions, emergency contacts. Eliminates the 'what's the pediatrician's number?' text at 11pm.
- Categorized entries (medical, school, contacts, household)
- Pinned items surface to the top for both parents
- Edit history — see who changed what and when
- Included with every paid plan
- Searchable across the whole library
Smart Notifications
Push, email, and in-app notifications tuned to actually matter. Urgent messages from your co-parent break through; routine updates batch into a daily digest. No notification spam.
- Per-category notification preferences
- Quiet hours — set your own do-not-disturb window
- Urgent flag from sender breaks through quiet hours
- Daily digest option for low-priority items
- Mobile push + email + in-app — all configurable
Co-parenting data is among the most sensitive personal data you have
We treat it that way. AES-256 encryption at rest, TLS 1.3 in transit, continuous backups, audit logging, and a zero-data-sales policy that is not just a marketing claim — it is contractually committed to every user.
Encrypted at rest
Stored on encrypted infrastructure (provided by our hosting provider)
TLS 1.3 in transit
Modern transport encryption on every request
SHA-256 verified exports
Every Court-Ready PDF carries a verifiable hash
Continuous backups
Encrypted, regularly backed-up infrastructure
Zero data sales
We will never sell or share your data with advertisers
Audit log on every action
Sign-ins, exports, account changes — all logged
Multi-child support
Manage records for every child in one account
Mobile + desktop
Identical capability across phone and computer
Start your free trial. Build the record you might need.
Most parents who eventually use a Court-Ready Report started documenting months — sometimes years — before they needed it. Start with a 10-day free trial — no credit card required — and pick the plan that fits when your situation calls for the deeper features.